Ciara

Let's talk about Ciara. Let's talk about how much everyone but Ciara wants to talk about her, her sex life, how she should be raising Baby Future, etc. etc. etc. 

I guess people think it's disrespectful of Ciara to bring Baby Future around her beau Russell Wilson. I ASK YOU WHY?! 

  1. Ciara and Future aren't together anymore due to FUTURE's cheating. 
  2. Future (for all intensive purposes based on appearances ie: social media) has not chosen to be in his child's life. He only wants to send sub tweets laced with expletives out into the universe. (Why are so many men getting a case of Twitter fingers lately instead of being about it in real life? I need answers.)
  3. Russell Wilson appears to be a good man and is stepping up to be involved in the life of a child that is not his own. I'm sure that's not easy for a man to do. So instead of giving him shit, maybe people should be giving him props. I'm still not completely sure I agree with his whole, "God told me to lead her thing" but that could just be a result of my own issues lol.

What I imagine this all boils down to is the idea that Ciara wasn't supposed to leave. She wasn't supposed to be happy, find a man that would treat her right, and be there for her child. Because you're never a good woman if you leave. You're never a good woman if you're happy after a break up. And you're definitely not a good woman if you let another man around your child. But what all you hoteps and #FutureHive capers seem to forget, is that Future will always be that child's father and Ciara will always be that child's mother. AND if they are not going to be together, then Ciara has every right to move on. I'm sure she never anticipated not being with Future. She loved him and they created a child together. This means that she now comes with a child and any man she wants to be with should know that + should love Baby Future because he's an extension of her. Y'all are mad at that baby for having two father figures and at Ciara for being happy as if a blended family and happy mother is the worst thing that can happen to a child.  

I know that when you enter the public eye you enable and offer up your life for examination. But damn, let's give the girl a break. Black women already have enough to try and prove as mothers.

You're bat shit crazy if you're giving Ciara a hard time about this, coming for her on Twitter, or XYZ. Ciara is a good woman even though she left and even though she's happy now. She is a woman with agency and the right to exercise it. She is a woman who deserves to be loved and treated like a queen. She is a mother who deserves to have father figures in the life of her child if she so chooses (if she wants to raise Baby Future alone, guess what, that's cool too). And, guess what sis, so are you. 

& don't you ever feel sorry for it!

& don't you ever feel sorry for it!


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